I was born in Southeast Washington, moved to Montgomery County in the mid-50’s and that is about it for me geographically.
When I was younger THE grocery store to go for ‘standard’ shopping was Giant Food. While a large organization it felt, at least in my memory, as a neighbor grocery.
I will be honest that most of the grocery shopping in our house is done by my wife, Ellen. Some number of years ago she decided that she just didn’t like Giant anymore. There were a number of reasons, none important to this post. She goes to Trader Joe’s sometimes, Whole Foods sometimes, Shoppers Food Warehouse sometimes, and more recently Harris Teeter.
Earlier today I needed to get sandwich ingredients for Bethesda Cares, http://www.bethesdacares.com/. Our synagogue, Ohr Kodesh, http://www.ohrkodesh.org/, has supported Bethesda Cares which provides food for the needy for many years. I am not entirely sure how I got on the mailing list. For those who know me, they recognize that I mostly focus on knowing people who do socially useful things, feeling that their goodness might rub off on me. Though I blame Ellen for this happening, regardless it is my name on the list and twice a year I make sandwiches and put together fruit and cookies and deliver it to a local church for distibution.
I tend to go to the nearest grocery store because, well, it is the closest. The nearest grocery store is a Giant. So I carefully bought items that were both consistent with the Bethesda Cares direction and were on sale. When I got to the check-out line, there was no line. I remarked to the check-out guy that I guess people were out walking in such beautiful weather.
“No”, he said, “they are probably all at Harris Teeter. I would be.”
“What?”, I responded.
“Don’t you know where it is, its just north of White Flint Mall, there’s no reason to shop here in my opinion.”
“Right. Thats where my wife shops, this just happened to be closer and I’m …”, as I thought to myself perhaps the phrase is ‘without judgement’.
So, somewhere in there is a lesson to someone about something. In our electronic, fast-moving, interconnected, twitter/facebook facing existence, I will leave it up to others to detect it.