February 15th was my 30th anniversary, which I will likely comment on in a separate post.
Ellen and I decided that we would do our 30th anniversary ‘stuff’ later this year. Not everyone would understand the following reference but this is not dissimilar to how many American Jewish families who don’t like the time of year their son or daughter’s birthday is for having a Bar or Bat Mitzvah event just move it to another time of year.
It occurs to me that all of this may have begun when we moved historical events to being celebrated on Mondays regardless of when they occurred that year and how this shows our modern culture isn’t willing to deal with the problems they need to face and would rather deal with the problems they chose to, but I digress.
In any event, as part of my mantra to do whatever Ellen wants in order to continue to encourage her to continue putting up with me, we decided to go to a Bed & Breakfast in Harpers Ferry over the President’s Day weekend, tying accidently into the Monday holiday thing.
Oh, I need to mention one other thing before actually getting to the Monday breakfast and the subject of the entry. On Friday, February 18th, I appeared on the Francis Rose In-Depth show talking about the three stories I thought important relating to Federal IT that week, http://www.federalnewsradio.com/?nid=17&sid=2276999. Other than noting that Francis is still another person who has played APBA baseball for many years, why I bring this up will become clear shortly.
So that is why the morning of February 21st, Monday, Ellen and I found ourselves at breakfast with two other couples around a table at the Jackson Rose B&B, http://www.thejacksonrose.com/, no relation to Francis. The Jackson part comes from the fact that Stonewall Jackson used the building as a headquarters part of the time during the Civil War, the Rose part comes from a reference he made in a letter to his wife referring to a pleasant rose that grew there.
One note at this point, I pretty carefully do not express any opinions that I might have about the backgrounds and/or the political positions that some of the members of the other two couples hold. That does not mean I do not have such opinions or in some cases that they might be different than those family members. It is merely because I wanted to focus on something else as will become evident.
To my right was a couple from Richmond VA. The wife’s family came from Armenia. Her grandmother was pregnant with her mother when Turkey forced the family, among many others, out of Armenia. From there they went to Beirut, Lebanon and then to the US. She has been very active with the American Armenian community interested in publicizing what they call the Armenia Genocide, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Armenian_Genocide. They were at the Jackson Rose because they came every year to visit.
Between that couple and we were a relatively young couple. The pregnant wife was from Palestine and is an employee at CAIR, the Council on American-Islamic Relations, http://www.cair.com/. Her husband had come to the US some sixteen months ago from Egypt. During the course of the breakfast, the husband said that he recognized me. We both then realized that on Friday while I was at the radio station, he had walked by and said hi. He worked there supporting the IT infrastructure. They were at the Jackson Rose because, amazingly, the Egyptian husband had developed a fascination with the American Civil War and was in the process of visiting all of the local Civil War battlefields. Harper’s Ferry was one of the last one’s on the list.
And of course, there was Ellen and I, American Jews whose families had come from various locations in Europe. During the course of the breakfast we discussed the recent events in the Middle-East and our viewpoints on a variety of topics including the homelands of each of the couples. Ellen discussed a recent play we had seen at the Theatre J, located in the Washington DC Jewish Community Center, called Return to Haifa, http://www.washingtondcjcc.org/center-for-arts/theater-j/on-stage/10-11Season/return-to-haifa/ with the Palestinian wife.
The play, written by an Israeli, was based on a novella written by a Palestinian. It tells the story of two couples and a child associated with both. One couple were Holocaust survivors who emigrated to Israel and as part of being given a house to live in were asked to adopt and raise a child left behind when Palestinians left the house in the chaos of the departure. The second couple was the family that left. The child became an Israeli soldier. The play went back and forth between the past and the present telling the complicated narratives that represent the difficulties in coming to an agreed to peace in the Middle-East today.
When we attended the play, it was followed by a pretty highly-charged audience discussion with lots of disagreements. Audience members included Israeli’s, Palestinians, and US Citizens of various persuasions.
The Egyptian born husband was the first to remark that he felt that only in America could these three couples accidentally come together, in Harpers Ferry of all places, at a Bed & Breakfast, and have the conversations we had that morning. On this one point, everyone at the table agreed completely.