When a country plays a significant role internationally, that mere fact can bring on a lack of popularity.
Becoming irrelevant is not necessarily the solution and often leads to being even less popular.
As Machiavelli wrote (long, but relevant quote) “I say that every prince ought to desire to considered clement and not cruel. Nevertheless he ought to take care not to misuse this clemency. … Upon this a question arises: whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved? It may be answered that one should wish to be both, but, because it is difficult to unite them in one person, is much safer to be feared than loved, when, of the two, either must be dispensed with. …men have less scruple in offending one who is beloved than one who is feared, for love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails.”
Interesting article from the New York Times about the current relationship between the US and Saudi Arabia where there US is neither loved nor feared: http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/28/world/middleeast/obama-courts-a-crucial-ally-as-paths-split.html
The article does not even mention the fact that Egypt, the new Saudi best friend (and these days not so much a friend to the US) has been reaching out to Russia to develop a stronger financial relationship. Thus Putin not only is moving to reestablish the “19th century” Russia but the 20th century relationships to the Middle-East. I hope the current Administration notices this. It is not clear that this is the mark, as President Obama put it, of a regional power unless he perceives the Middle-East part of Russia’s region.